Pets can’t exactly fill us in with a detailed description when something’s off. As pet owners, it’s tough not knowing if a fur baby is hurting or just having an off day. Even the most devoted cat and dog parents can find themselves wondering: Is my pet hiding discomfort, and what should I be looking for?

First, it’s important to know that pets—especially cats—are really good at masking pain. It’s a survival instinct, but it makes things tricky for us. Dogs might show us they’re hurting by limping, whimpering, or being less excited to play, but cats tend to retreat, sleep more, or simply act a bit moodier than usual.

So, what signals should you watch for? Here are a few subtle signs that something may be up:

• Changes in appetite or water intake
• Unusual hiding or withdrawing from family
• Licking or chewing a specific spot
• Reluctance to jump, climb stairs, or use furniture
• Changes in grooming habits (more or less than usual)
• Unexplained aggression or irritability

It’s easy to second-guess whether your pet is just being quirky or if there’s a real concern. Trust your gut—no one knows your pet’s routines and “normal” better than you do. If you have questions or notice persistent changes, jot them down so you don’t forget details when chatting with your vet.

Remember, it’s ok to feel unsure! Many pet parents have been right where you are. Gaining clarity often starts with asking questions, keeping an open mind, and working together with your veterinary team. Your attentiveness is already making a big difference for your furry companion.